Hey,
I never really tried to grow my Discord in any kind of way, but If you want to be the first one to hang out with some funny and kind people this is the perfect place for you.
I mainly used my discord to show my friend when I started streaming, but I considered that mabye other people, for example you, wanna get to know some new people too. :)
If you consider joining I'd appreciate and I'll give you a heartly welcome :D