https://godlessdebates.blogspot.com/2020/09/tom-abuse-amnesia-syndrome-about-half.html
The Tom Abuse Amnesia Syndrome is a phenomena in our community where almost every victim of Tom Unboxes either forgets that the abuse occurred at all or after some time comes to believe what they use to view as abuse was actually justified.
The phenemona involves the inability to recall dramatic events that would not typically be lost with ordinary forgetting. The amnesia appears to be caused by traumatic or stressful experiences endured or witnessed on Discord.